Radical Honesty in Relationships:
A 7-Day Retreat
Costa Rica | March 10-16, 2025
$1500-3200
Join Radical Honesty Trainers, Tony Shawcross and Lindsay St.Antoine, for this 7-day relationship retreat in idyllic Cascada Elysiana in Costa Rica, where you’ll be surrounded by nature.
Each day starts with a delicious, healthy vegetarian breakfast and optional group yoga, followed by eye-opening workshops and personal coaching that will leave you with a whole new level of connection, authenticity, and intimacy.
Singles are welcome in this retreat which focuses on romantic relationships, getting clear on what we want, and how to stop sabotaging ourselves in cultivating the romantic relationships we want.
Retreat Highlights
Recognize patterns of self-sabotage and disconnect that leave you in emotional or physical isolation.
Foster interdependence (as distinct from co-dependence and independence)
Appreciate and accept yourself and others for who you are, rather than who you think you / they SHOULD be
Heal the past and get over current hurts and struggles so you stop bringing them forward into future relationships.
Foster a growth mindset for yourself and within your romantic relationship(s)
Learn the delicate dance of contact and withdrawal by simply and clearly stating what is going on with you right now
About the Retreat
DETAILS
This workshop has 7 days of exercises aimed at improving your ability to:
Recognize patterns of self-sabotage and disconnect that leave you in emotional or physical isolation.
Foster interdependence (as distinct from co-dependence and independence)
Appreciate and accept yourself and others for who you are, rather than who you think you / they SHOULD be
Heal the past and get over current hurts and struggles so you stop bringing them forward into future relationships.
Foster a growth mindset for yourself and within your romantic relationship(s)
Learn the delicate dance of contact and withdrawal by simply and clearly stating what is going on with you right now
This retreat is aimed at helping romantic partners redesign their relationships to focus on supporting each other in being their best selves, as defined by you. If you are single, our goal is to give you the space to get clear on what you want in a relationship and heal any past wounds that may be holding you back.
Our aim is to support you to re-contextualize your relationships around supporting one another in being who/how you want to be in a way that acknowledges and embraces the aspects of yourself that are not in alignment with that vision.
This workshop is absolutely LGBTQIA+ friendly,
for folks in any sort of relationship configuration, and for singles.
***This workshop may be an emotionally intense experience. We will spend a lot of our time focusing on remaining present in our bodies and present to our individual experiences; we will also spend time expressing and processing emotions, including sadness, resentment, and appreciation.***
WEEKLONG SCHEDULE
We’ll have 5 full days and 2 partial days in sessions.
Day 1: March 10
6 - 8:30pm
Participants will arrive over the weekend or on Monday and be prepared to begin the workshop at 6pm.
Dinner will be provided.
Day 2 - 6: March 11 - 15
10am - 5:30pm
All day workshop centered around group and partner exercises.
3 meals/day provided, and breaks throughout the day.
Optional daily yoga at 8am.
Day 7: March 16
10am - 12pm
Final day; only breakfast and lunch will be provided (unless you have arranged to stay longer).
Participants will close out the workshop and depart the eco resort.
DAILY SCHEDULE
8am Optional Yoga and Meditation
9am Breakfast
10am-1pm Morning Workshop Session
1-1:30pm Lunch Break
1:30-5:30pm Afternoon Session
5:30-6pm Dinner
Note: Schedule is approximate and may change
LOCATION & TRAVEL
Cascada Elysiana, San José Province, Pérez Zeledón, Costa Rica
The eco resort, Cascada Elysiana, is seated in the valley of San Juan de Dios in Costa Rica, near Dominical. The easiest way to get to Cascada Elysiana is by flying into San Jose's airport, Juan Santamaría International Airport (SJO), and taking a taxi to the retreat center.
The retreat center is 3.5 hours from the airport and a taxi ride generally costs $100-150, so we suggest trying to share a taxi with other workshop members if you can -- if you consent to it, we will create a google spreadsheet list of the workshop members' information so you can coordinate a shared taxi with someone.
We can provide you contact information of a trusted taxi company, or you can find your own transportation. Renting a car is not recommended as parking is limited. For potential group excursions, we will provide transportation offsite.
ACCOMMODATION & RATES
Shared rooms, private rooms in shared homes, private glamping tents, and private cabins are available.
Price ranges from $1500 to $3200 depending on the accommodations you choose. All options include 3 meals/day and workshop sessions.
REGISTRATION
Register by making a $1500 non-refundable deposit. If the rate for your accommodation choice is more than $1500, then we’ll be in touch to coordinate your additional payment which will be due on or before March 1st, 2025.
WORKSHOP FACILITATORS
Your workshop will be led by Radical Honesty Trainers Lindsay St. Antoine and Tony Shawcross.
Lindsay St. Antoine
I partner with folks who are ready and aspiring to get free and intimate through self revealing, who are eager to emerge as their bold, authentic selves and create a life of exhilarating self expression and deep realness.
I’m an honesty coach and Radical Honesty Trainer in Denver, Colorado. In addition to providing honesty coaching, I also lead in-person and online Radical Honesty workshops.
I worked closely with Radical Honesty founder, Brad Blanton, beginning in 2014,
filling many roles within Radical Honesty Enterprises, ending with my role as COO in 2021.
I was certified as a Radical Honesty Trainer in 2017.
I have a great capacity for being with and fully witnessing people in their shame, embarrassment, anger or darker emotions, and ushering in whatever naturally arises for them in those spaces. For empowering people to stick with themselves (and each other) in these vulnerable and often uncomfortable spaces, and fully experience their whole experience. In doing so, shifts can occur, full body forgiveness naturally arises, and they may come to know themselves and be able to share themselves fully with others.
Tony Shawcross
Radical Honesty has given me greater access to understanding my body, my subconscious mind, and my internal biases and filters than I ever had before.
As long as I can remember, I've had a passion for unbridled, authentic conversations and collaborative creative expression, and am grateful for how Radical Honesty has contributed to my work in film, music and writing. -Tony
Tony has been working closely with Brad Blanton and Radical Honesty since 2014. As a video producer, editor and writer, Tony has helped produce the Radical Honesty online workshops and videos, editing and compiling hundreds of hours of footage in ways that give him a unique level of familiarity with the work of Radical Honesty.
Tony leads a monthly meetup in Denver and has co-led many weekend workshops and introductions. In his coaching work, Tony specializes in couples, relationship and family coaching. Tony hosts a Radical Parenting podcast that is available online on major podcast outlets and on his local FM Radio Station, Denver Open Media.